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In New York, LGBTQ youth in out-of-home placement have the right to the same care and support as non-LGBTQ youth. New York’s LGBTQ foster resource families have the right to participate in the foster care system in the same fashion as a non-LGBTQ foster resource families. While the principles and expectations are the same, working with the LGBTQ community may require additional knowledge, access to resources, and a deeper understanding of the LGBTQ community, their history, and culture.
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Working with LGBTQ youth and families is no different than working with any other population. In order to successfully work with LGBTQ youth and families, it is vital to understand the vocabulary of the LGBTQ community and the nuances of sexual orientation, gender identity and expression (SOGIE). An understanding of the term SOGIE is an important lens through which to view this work. All people, not just LGBTQ people, have a sexual orientation, gender identity and expression. To learn more about the vocabulary used by the LGBTQ community, please visit the resources below:
- LGBTQ+ Community Practice Model
21-OCFS-INF-06 - Informational Letter
21-OCFS-INF-06 Attachment A - LGBTQ+ Community Practice Model
21-OCFS-INF-06 Attachment B - LGBTQ+ Terms, Concepts, and Definitions - Voices of LGBTQ+ Youth in the NYS Foster Care System Webinar
LGBTQ+ Youth in Foster Care Listening Sessions Report
Voices of LGBTQ+ Youth video download
Voices of LGBTQ+ Youth slide deck - OCFS released an informational memorandum in 2016 (16-OCFS-INF-10) with information on SOGIE Terminology, SOGIE Development Across the Lifespan, and a Quick Tips Guide.
- Leading With Pride to Support LGBTQIA2S+ Youth and Families: Created by the Administration for Children and Families (ACF) Children’s Bureau and the Child Welfare Information Gateway RESOURCE COLLECTION JUNE 2023.
- The Human Rights Campaign’s All Children All Families program supports foster care agencies working with LGBTQ families and youth. Please find more information on their program, and on LGBTQ cultural competency and terminology in their archive of webinars.
- Indian Health Services maintains a list of LGBTQ cultural competency trainings, with a focus on the specific needs and challenges of LGBTQ Native Americans.
- GLMA, an association of medical providers dedicated to LGBTQ affirming practice, maintains a webinar series on LGBTQ cultural competency as well as creating supportive environments for working with LGBTQ clients.
If you are looking for local resources, the following directories can help you identify your nearest LGBTQ Center, or LGBTQ-affirming service provider:
- For a safe online space to communicate with someone about your LGBTQ identity, you can reach out to the LGBT National Help Center. They offer:
- A national LGBT youth talk line: 800-246-7743
- Weekly online chat rooms
- Online chat with peers
- Look up your nearest LGBTQ Center on Center Link, a nationwide directory of LGBTQ Centers. LGBTQ Centers may provide the following services:
- Direct access or referral to LGBTQ-affirming mental and medical health providers, legal services, nonprofit programming, housing/shelter needs, etc.
- Cultural competency training for agencies, districts, schools, etc.
- LGBTQ-affirming and informed mental health professionals on staff
- Ongoing programming for youth and adults
- Consultation services to assist in program development or incident resolution
- Find your nearest LGBTQ Health and Human Services provider online from this New York State LGBT Health and Human Services Network directory, maintained by The Center in New York City.
- If you are in New York City, LGBTQ-affirming providers are also listed at the NYC Comptroller’s LGBTQ Guide of Services. The directory includes different categories of service types, specific LGBTQ identities, an interactive map, and a search function.
Resources Regarding Transgender, Gender Nonconforming and Nonbinary Youth
The Office of Children and Family Services recognizes and supports the gender identity of all youth. It is critical to provide resources that are affirming and supportive, especially for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer/questioning (LGBTQ+) youth. Within the LGBTQ+ community, transgender, gender nonconforming, and nonbinary (TGNC) youth face increased risks for depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. It is important to better understand TGNC youth gender identity and expression, inform youth about protections they have against gender-identity discrimination, and to understand their needs and experiences related to gender transition.
The resources below introduce TGNC gender transition through videos, webinars and education on gender transition and pronoun usage, and information from TGNC health programming worldwide. Further learning for New York State employees about Gender Identity can be found on the Statewide Learning Management System under the title "Gender Identity Toolkit."
- Video of Stella Keating at the Senate Judiciary Committee on the Equality Act
- Ted Talk by TGNC Woman Raised in Foster Care in New York
- Webinars by UCLA on Gender Identity and Health
- Webinars by the Fenway Health Institute on Gender Identity and Health
- Human Rights Campaign Educational Webinars
- The World Professional Association for Transgender Health: Assessment and Treatment of Children and Adolescents With Gender Dysphoria (pg. 10)
For LGBTQ foster youth, family reunification can be difficult if the family of origin is rejecting of their child’s LGBTQ identity. It is important to engage biological families, and to work with them to best support their child. The following report provides information and strategies from the Family Acceptance Project on how to best engage rejecting families of LGBTQ youth:
- A Practitioner’s Resource Guide: Helping Families to Support Their LGBT Children (OCFS publication announcement: 16-OCFS-INF-03)
Understanding and celebrating the history of the LGBTQ Equality movement can be important for LGBTQ people to develop a connection to their community. June is traditionally celebrated as LGBTQ Pride Month, but celebrations of Pride happen in New York State year-round. To learn how to connect to such an event, or create your own, please download the LGBTQ Pride Celebration Toolkit below:
For LGBTQ people, visibly safe spaces are important for their physical and mental safety. OCFS has created its own “LGBTQ+ Friendly” image for you to download, print, and display if you would like: